ezs note: The general rule is the more you try to "fix" things, the more they get messed up. If you haven't done so already, see a competent therapist, then get your life in order. It doesn't matter whether your'e in an Australian rock band member or the former governor of New Jersey, (or anyone else) get help now!
ezs note: If you live in Florida's 19th state house district, please consider running against Charles Van Zant. I can't guarantee anything as far as what the results will be, but please know that you will receive my heartfelt thanks.
ezs note: You can make a difference as to how policing is done in your community. Go to the next town or city council meeting and ask how policing is carried out. If they seem reticent, keep on bugging them! If they still seem bullheaded, you can run!